In 2009, I launched an inspirational series of interviews with ordinary folks who do extraordinary things. They breathe life into their dreams, resolutions and daily goals, one small step at a time, one day at a time over the long haul. Though they may be statistically in the minority of resolution-makers (the ones who succeed), I wanted to highlight 'what works', and give them credit for their accomplishments. 'Amanda Wyler was the ninth Resolutionista' inducted into the I Resolve To . . . Hall Of Fame and the inspirational series continues in 2010!
AMANDA WYLER REFLECTS
With December 31 just days away, I can't help but look back and evaluate the past year - 2009 has been an amazing adventure. I have challenged and pushed myself in things I once upon a time thought impossible. Sure, I have made mistakes and fallen (sometimes flat on my face!), but the important thing is that I made the effort to get up, dust myself off, and try again until I got it right. In doing that alone, I have learned so much - not only about the situations at-hand, but also about myself. I have learned how I react to things and what it takes to really succeed: having a clear definition of goals, determining methods of motivation, learning perseverance, and enjoying success.
Whether having accomplished a long list of goals, or just embarking on a goal-setting journey, it is incredibly important to take time for self-reflection. I am choosing to approach 2010 as a stepping stone - something to build on top of my personal and professional victories of the past year. My first step in doing this is creating a tangible list with answers to this simple question: "Specifically, how can I take my goals one step further?" Thinking on a small scale keeps me from feeling overwhelmed. Slow and steady wins the race!
Naturally, once a goal of any size is created, it needs motivation to be realized. No one is going to stand over you with a whip until you finish it - and for good reason! A journey to a goal should be enjoyed (though, it is normal to experience some growing pains along the way!), and the journey's direction is up to the individual who dreamed it in the first place. This is where self-reflection comes into play. I know what makes me tick, what excites me and what motivates me . . . and I use it to my advantage! Motivation is the counterpart to meeting and keeping goals. Believe anything is possible. If you believe, you will achieve.
Furthermore, the old adage, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again," may be overused, but it is true. The part people fail to mention is, when "trying again," rarely try the same method twice. It is important to get creative and think outside the box. Don't be afraid to experiment with ideas until you get it right.
Finally, what an amazing feeling it is to look up one day after all the baby steps have been taken and realize you have reached your ultimate destination. I will never forget that feeling: Success! I believe there is a season for everything and after accomplishing a goal, there should be a season of celebration!
Life is all about cycles and to constantly evolve and be a better person, I anticipate each year will always bring new steps to take toward new goals. Before embarking on a New Year's journey, the most important thing is to take time out to reward yourself for a job well done.
- Happy 2010! -
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Kim M. Simpson - December 28, 2009
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